When you say you dont have a live to the relay above the radiator, what relay are you talking about as there are 2. One is for the cooling fans and the other for the fuel injectors. Your main (largest) red wire going to the right most relay, goes from the relay, down the wiring loom, through a fuseable link and connects to the end of the starter motor. Hope this helps. Ill try and get some of the wiring diagrams to you if you need them Regards Stuart