BPM (beats per minute) is just how the tempo is measured, so setting the BPM is the same as setting the tempo. The metronome is the audible indicator of that speed. It may not appear so, but if you click on the number underneath where it says "BPM" you can change that number directly, ie enter 160 or whatever. And as noted you can change it with the mouse wheel, and you can also tap the letters "BPM" in rhythm and it will set the tempo that way. I notice you're saying "match" - are you starting a song from scratch or importing an existing song? The above would apply to the former, but if it's the latter, there are probably some workflow adjustments you'll need to make.